Scattering Cremated Remains in New Hampshire

We’re often asked about the specific laws for scattering cremated remains in New Hampshire? In New Hampshire, there are no specific state laws dictating where you can store or scatter the remains of your loved one.

This flexibility means you have many choices when it comes to deciding on a final resting place. However, it’s essential to consider several factors before scattering the remains of a friend or family member. 

First and foremost, always use common sense when scattering cremated remains. While there is no public health risk associated with remains, be thoughtful of others. Avoid public places where people might inadvertently witness the scattering and be caught off guard. Also beware of prevailing winds so they do not blow into people. These considerations help ensure a respectful and serene experience for everyone. 

Make a Plan for Scattering

Identify who will receive and/or scatter the cremated remains.

Unless the specifics are already outlined in a will, or plans were made ahead of time that define who will keep or scatter the remains, you’ll need to discuss the subject with those who need or want to be involved. Before you release any remains, you will likely want to check with other family members or close friends to see if they would like to participate and/or save any of the remains. Otherwise, you could upset relatives who were hoping to keep a piece of their loved one close, or be involved in the tribute. Remember, this is a difficult situation for everyone, so it’s best to err on the side of being inclusive, if you can.

Plan where to scatter the remains.

The remains don’t necessarily have to all be released at the same time, or even in the same place. Your loved ones’ wishes and your grieving process will dictate when, where and how many times the remains are scattered. Did your loved one have a favorite place, or several favorite places where you think they would want their remains to be released? Did you always talk about traveling somewhere specific? Talk with other family members and close friends to confirm the best spot (or spots) to scatter the remains. Or, if it is outlined specifically ahead of time, you can follow the wishes of your loved one. Remember, though, that while your loved one may have requested something specific, this is your grieving process so it’s perfectly alright to honor their wishes and do something that feels good to you as well. A cremated adult creates four to six pounds of cremains, plenty to honor both your loved one and yourself – and maybe some family members and friends as well.

Don’t do it alone.

While it’s common to see pictures of people scattering remains solo, it’s a good idea to bring someone along. When the time comes, you may need either practical or moral support. You never know when something unexpected may occur, and your emotions may be unpredictable as well. Having a friend or family member there may help you get through the experience more successfully.

It probably won’t look like it does in your head.

Cremated remains don’t look like fireplace ash. They’re not uniform in size or consistency. And, they’re typically white and very fine – more like coarse sand and powder than ash. Also, the remains may contain fragments of bone as. You don’t usually hear that, but it’s true and it’s worth knowing ahead of time. So, when you go to scatter the remains, some may take flight, but larger pieces may just drop on the ground in a less picturesque fashion.

It’s messy.

What you don’t often hear about scattering remains is that it can be messy. When you get where you’re going, it’s important to identify where the wind is blowing, so you don’t end up with remains in your face, hair or mouth. Remains also stick to skin easily, so you may be a little dirty when you’re done. You can plan to bring a bottle of water and a small towel so you can clean any errant remains off yourself. 

Capture the experience.

You may want to remember the experience after it is over, or possibly share it with those that can’t be present. One way to do this is to document the process. Start with a photo of the remains in the container before you release them, and if you have someone with you, have them take a picture or video of you scattering the remains. Take pictures of the journey to the place where you are releasing the remains, and of the trip back home. The pictures will provide something tangible from the event that you can keep and share with friends and family.

Scattering in Designated Gardens 

Many cemeteries offer dedicated areas for scattering remains, often known as “scattering gardens.” If this resonates with you, you should contact local cemeteries to check if they offer such a service. Gathering additional details about the process will help you make an informed decision.

Scattering Cremated Remains by Airplane 

While New Hampshire doesn’t have specific state laws governing the scattering of remains from an airplane, there are federal aviation regulations. These laws prohibit dropping any object that might harm people or property. Though cremated remains are not considered hazardous on their own, it’s crucial to remove them from their container before scattering them from the air. 

Scattering Cremated Remains at Sea 

Can I scatter cremated remains in New Hampshire waterways?

Choosing to scatter remains at sea in New Hampshire means following federal regulations set forth by the Federal Clean Water Act. When it comes to burials at sea, keep in mind the following restrictions: 

1. No scattering within three nautical miles from shore
2. No scattering across bays and rivers’ openings
3. No scattering at beaches or in wading pools near the ocean
4. No scattering of non-human remains, like pets
5. No depositing of non-decomposable materials, like plastic items, decorative objects or urns. These must be disposed of separately

If you need to follow any of these exceptions, you may need an application for an MPRSA special permit. Additionally, the EPA needs to be informed within 30 days of any scattering at sea. For more detailed information, visit the EPA website. 

If you’re planning a memorial scattering service, consider New England Burials at Sea. This local company offers year-round, cost-effective services for both attended and unattended traditional memorial cruises to scatter cremated remains.

Scattering Remains on Private Land 

Can I scatter cremated remains on private property in New Hampshire?

If you’d like to scatter remains on your own private property, you’re free to do so. However, scattering cremated remains on someone else’s private land requires the landowner’s permission. To avoid any potential issues, determine whether the land is privately or publicly owned before planning the scattering. 

State and National Parks, and Other Public Lands 

Although specific rules vary across state and national parks, as well as other public lands, it’s generally recommended that you avoid scattering remains within 100 yards of public roads, walkways or trails. 

Scattering Remains in New Hampshire State Parks 

Is it legal to scatter cremated remains in New Hampshire state parks?

If you’re considering scattering remains in a New Hampshire state park, including protected lakes or other bodies of water, you will need to contact the park management. The Clean Water Act places strict regulations on scattering remains in inland waters, such as rivers and lakes. In some cases, a state permit may be required. 

New Hampshire National Parks 

New Hampshire hosts two national parks: the Appalachian Trail and the Saint-Gaudens National Historical Park. If you’re considering scattering remains in either of these locations, make sure to check the specific regulations and frequently asked questions: 

• Appalachian Trail
• Saint-Gaudens

White Mountain National Forest 

The White Mountain National Forest is not a national park, and its regulations are slightly different from those of New Hampshire state parks. According to the forest headquarters, there are no specific rules regarding scattering remains in the forest, but it is strongly discouraged. Using common sense in this situation is your best bet.