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About Our Concierge Services

At Phaneuf Funeral Home and Crematorium, it is always our goal to help simplify the funeral planning process and to provide added value to our services and client families. As a result, we have developed an array of concierge services to assist you in all of your planning needs. From making a reservation at a local restaurant after the visitation or memorial service, to assisting with picking up a family member at the airport, or ordering a special bouquet of flowers, we are here to help. Our extensive relationships with local businesses make it possible for you to get the best deals on hotels, restaurants, florists, car services and other companies.

Our in-house concierge staff is at your service during standard business hours, Monday to Saturday from 8:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. You can call us at (603) 625-5777 or 1-800-Phaneuf (742-6383) to discuss your needs in advance.

In House Services

In addition to assistance with flower orders, directions, hotel accommodations, dining reservations and transportation assistance, we can provide you with referrals and contacts for a variety of other needs. Some of these referral services include:

  • Babysitting services while you attend a visitation or funeral (either at your hotel, the funeral home or a private residence).
  • Housesitting service for immediate family members while you are at the funeral home or service.
  • Moving and storage services upon the death of a family member whose belongings and furnishings need to be moved, stored or sold.
  • Rental of beds, cribs, wheelchairs or other items to accommodate out-of-town guests.
  • Legal referrals for probate and estate issues.
  • Free internet connections via our high-speed WiFi hotspot.
  • Each of our four funeral homes is equipped with cafés that you may use during services. We provide coffee, tea, bottled water and soft drinks during services.
  • Our Hanover Street location now has a dedicated function room where families can have sit-down memorial meals after their services. The room can accommodate up to 40 people and can also be used for a memorial service or gathering. The room rental is $295 for up to two hours. You may bring in your own food or select from our catering menu. We add a 20% service charge to catering orders to account for staff time to plan and manage your function and pay for ancillary items associated with the meal, including a hostess. Please ask your funeral counselor for our full catering menu.
  • Car Services – During normal business hours (Monday through Friday 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.), and schedule permitting, our staff is available to assist you with your transportation needs. If you are attending a visitation or service at one of our funeral homes and need transportation to a local residence, hotel, the Manchester Airport or a local restaurant, we can assist you. We can also make arrangements to pick up family members or friends locally and have them brought to one of our facilities as well. Our limousines can accommodate up to seven people. Fees may apply for these services. Of course, transportation of immediate family members to and from the funeral home is free of charge as part of any funeral or cremation service that includes use of one of our limousines. Please call us at (603) 625-5777 or 1-800-PHANEUF and ask to speak with the funeral director handling the services to make these arrangements.

If you have other special needs or requests, please call our staff concierge services during normal business hours at (603) 625-5777 or e-mail us at info@phaneuf.net.

Hotels

Manchester Area

SpringHill Suites by Marriott

975 North Perimeter Road
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 668-9400 or book on line at: www.marriott.com/springhill
*Please ask for our Discounted Bereavement Rate

  • King Studios & Two Double Bed Studios
  • Hot Breakfast Buffet included Daily
  • Indoor Heated Pool and Fitness Center
  • All rooms include a full size sleeper sofa and kitchenette
  • Local Area/Airport Shuttle 24/7

Our partner hotel is SpringHill Suites. The property, opened in 2002, is conveniently located by the Manchester Airport. It is approximately 5 miles from our Hanover Street Funeral Home, and 7 miles from our Coolidge Avenue location. When booking a reservation by telephone, mention that you will attending a service at Phaneuf Funeral Homes or book directly on-line at this special link: www.marriott.com/springhill.

Courtyard by Marriott

700 Huse Road
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 641-4900
www.courtyard.com

  • King Studios & Two Queen Bed Studios
  • Courtyard Bistro and Bar onsite for purchase
  • Indoor Heated Pool and Fitness Center
  • Local Area/Airport Shuttle 24/7
  • Pet Friendly
  • On-Site Function Space

Moderately priced facility with close access to the airport and major highways. The Courtyard is approximately 5 to 6 miles from our properties.

Homewood Suites by Hilton

1000 Perimeter Road
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 668-2200
homewoodsuites3.hilton.com

  • King Studios, King One Bedrooms & King Two Bedrooms
  • Hot Breakfast Buffet Included Daily
  • Indoor Heated Pool and Fitness Center
  • All rooms are full suites with full kitchens
  • Local Area/Airport Shuttle 24/7
  • Pet Friendly
  • On-Site Function Space

TownePlace Suites by Marriott

686 Huse Road
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 641-2288
www.marriott.com

  • Queen Studios, Queen One Bedrooms & Queen Two Bedrooms
  • Hot Breakfast Buffet Included Daily
  • All rooms include sleeper sofa and full kitchen
  • Local Area/Airport Shuttle 24/7
  • Indoor Heated Pool and Fitness Center
  • Pet Friendly

Fairfield Inn Marriott

860 South Porter Street
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 625-2020
*Please ask for our Discounted Bereavement Rate
www.marriott.com/mhtfm

Located only 4 miles from the Manchester-Boston Regional Airport, the Fairfield Inn by Marriott is sure to be your best choice for quality that is affordable and comfortable.

Bedford Village Inn

2 Village Inn Lane
Bedford, NH 03110
Reservations: (603) 472-2001
www.bedfordvillageinn.com

The “BVI” offers luxury accommodations and an award-winning restaurant. This beautiful traditional New England Inn is located 6 miles from our Hanover Street funeral home and 4 miles from our Coolidge Avenue facility.

Best Western Executive Court Inn

13500 South Willow Street
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 627-2525 or 877-627-2525
www.executivecourtinn.com

Standard facilities located close to the Manchester Airport and Route 293 and Interstate 93. The Best Western is 5 miles from our Hanover Street and 6 miles from our Coolidge Avenue location.

Hilton Garden Inn

101 South Commercial Street
Manchester, NH 03101
Reservations: (603) 669-2222
http://hiltongardeninn3.hilton.com

Popular downtown location, only a mile away from both Hanover and Coolidge locations.

Super 8 Motel

2301 Brown Avenue
Manchester, NH 03109
Reservations: (603) 623-0883
www.super8.com

Budget accommodations close to the Manchester Airport and five to six miles from our funeral homes.

Radisson “Center of New Hampshire” Hotel

700 Elm Street
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 625-1000
www.radisson.com

This downtown hotel is conveniently located to our locations; only half a mile away from our Hanover location and only one mile from the Coolidge building.

Sheraton Four Points Hotel

55 John E. Devine Drive
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 668-6110
www.fourpoints.com/manchester

The hotel is conveniently located close to the Manchester Airport and major highways. The Sheraton is approximately five miles from our locations.

Comfort Inn

298 Queen City Avenue
Manchester, NH 03102
(603)668-2600
www.choicehotels.com
Bereavement Rate $89.00

The Comfort Inn is a newly renovated downtown Manchester hotel conveniently located off I-293, just less than 3 miles from both the Hanover Street and Coolidge Avenue location. The hotel offers a year round Bereavement Rate of $74.00. To take advantage of this rate, please contact the hotel directly and mention that you are attending a service at one of the Phaneuf Funeral Homes.

Holiday Inn Manchester Airport

2280 Brown Ave
Manchester, NH 03103
Reservations: (603) 641-6466
*Please ask for our Discounted Bereavement Rate
www.holidayinn.com

The Holiday Inn Manchester Airport is located about 3.5 miles from our Hanover Street location and about 4.5 miles from our Coolidge Ave location. The Hotel offers a discounted rate to all visitors of the Phaneuf Funeral Home. To book this rate, you may call the Hotel directly and request the “Bereavement Rate”.

La Quinta Inns & Suites

21 Front Street
Manchester, NH 03102
Reservations: (603) 669-5400
www.laquintamanchester.com

Call and ask for the Bereavement discount.
Or use the discount code online: BEREAV

The La Quinta Inns & Suites is in the historic Millyard district of downtown Manchester overlooking the Amoskeag Falls. Located off exit 6, I 293 and just minutes from the Manchester-Boston Regional Airport. About three miles from our Hanover Street facility and less than one mile from our Coolidge Avenue location.

Concord/Boscawen Area

Best Western Concord Inn & Suites

97 Hall Street
Concord, NH 03301
Phone: 1-(603) 228-4300
www.bestwesternnewhampshire.com

The Best Western is located about nine miles from our Boscawen facility and about 23 miles from Manchester-Boston Regional Airport

Comfort Inn

71 Hall Street
Concord, NH 03301
Reservations: (603) 226-4100
www.comfortinnconcord.com

The Comfort Inn is located about nine miles from our Boscawen facility and about 23 miles from Manchester-Boston Regional Airport

Courtyard by Marriott

70 Constitution Avenue
Concord, NH 03301
Phone: 1-(603) 225-0303
www.marriott.com

The Courtyard is located about seven miles from our Boscawen facility and about 24 miles from Manchester-Boston Regional Airport

Fairfield Inn by Marriott

4 Gulf Street
Concord, NH 03301
Phone: 1-(603) 224-4011
www.marriott.com

The Fairfield Inn is located about nine miles from our Boscawen facility and about 22 miles from Manchester-Boston Regional Airport

Holiday Inn

172 North Main St
Concord, NH 03301
Phone: 1-(603) 224-9534
www.holidayinn.com

The Holiday Inn is located about eight miles from our Boscawen facility and about 23 miles from Manchester-Boston Regional Airport

Littleton Area

Hampton Inn

580 Meadow Street
Littleton, NH 03561
https://hamptoninn3.hilton.com

Realizing the last thing you want to do in a time of grief is shop for an affordable hotel, the Hampton Inn offers a special bereavement rate. Located approximately 2 miles from Pillsbury-Phaneuf Funeral Home, the Hampton Inn offers free WiFi, complimentary hot breakfast, a heated saltwater pool, gym and fitness center, business center and spacious in-room workstations.

Historic Thayers Inn

111 Main Street
Littleton, NH 03561
(603) 444-6469
http://www.thayersinn.com

This beautiful inn is centrally located on Main street and is less than half a mile away from our Littleton location.

Brattleboro Area

Holiday Inn Express

100 Chickering Drive
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
888-HOLIDAY
Website

The Holiday Inn Express in Brattleboro offers many amenities such as a complimentary Express Start breakfast bar, an on-site Fitness Center, a heated indoor pool, and a gift shop. Conveniently situated off I-91, the Holiday Inn Express is only a short 5 minute drive from the funeral home.

Latchis Hotel

50 Main Street
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 254-6300
www.latchishotel.com

Located less than half a mile from Ker-Phaneuf Funeral Home, The Latchis Hotel stands tall on a vibrant corner of downtown Brattleboro near the edge of the Connecticut River. The historic Art Deco rooms and theatres are living monuments to America’s golden age. You have your choice of Interior, Mountain, or Urban View rooms. All rooms include free continental breakfast, high speed Wifi, full HD programming, coffeemaker with coffee, tea, and bottled water, and sound masking machines.

Motel 6

1254 Putney Road
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 254-6007
www.motel6.com

Close-by, comfortable and affordable. The Motel 6 is located approximately 3 miles from the funeral home and offers free wifi as well as free lodging for kids and a pet friendly environment.

Hampton Inn

1378 Putney Road
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 254-5700
hamptoninn3.hilton.com

Located 3 miles form the funeral home, the Hampton Inn is the perfect hotel to satisfy a variety of needs. Offering an extensive business center, cribs and high chairs, a fitness room, pool, laundry service, and local transportation, you are sure to notice the difference so many amenities can make during a stressful time. The hotel is also fully ADA compliant.

Quality Inn & Conference Center

1380 Putney Rd
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 254-8701
www.choicehotels.com

In addition to a convenient location, the Quality Inn is pet-friendly and offers a seasonal outdoor pool, picnic area, sauna, game room with pool table, business center, an exercise room and large meeting room, plus free hot, fresh and healthy breakfast, free WiFi. indoor heated pool,  guest laundry facilities and an-house restaurant Each smoke-free guest room offers a refrigerator, coffee maker and hair dryer, along with an iron and ironing board. Beds feature a comfortable, premium mattress and linens, a generous supply of fluffy pillows and a soft, plush blanket. Select rooms come with microwaves and sofa sleepers, and one- and two-bedroom suites are available.

Econo Lodge

515 Canal Street
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 254-2360
brattleboroeconolodge.com

The Econo Lodge allows for more flexibility for guests, offering smoking rooms and welcoming pets. You will find a number of helpful amenities and conveniences at this hotel located just outside Brattleboro in the town of Dummerston.

The Covered Bridge Inn

1043 Putney Road
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 254-8889
hotels.cloudbeds.com

The Covered Bridge Inn is a family-owned hotel with clean, comfortable rooms and an exceptional staff. Conveniently located off I-91, just minutes from the New Hampshire border and one hour from Springfield, MA

Riverside Hotel

20 Riverside Drive
West Chesterfield, NH, 03466
(603) 256-4200
www.choicehotels.com

Located just over the NH border in West Chesterfield, only 7 minutes from the funeral home, this boutique hotel sits along the banks of the scenic Connecticut River and offers easy access to I-91.

The One Cat Bed & Breakfast

43 Clark Street
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 579-1905
www.theonecatvermont.com

Only half a mile from the funeral home, The One Cat is a small bed & breakfast owned by a friendly, warm and welcoming husband and wife team. Conrad and Pat. The One Cat is a converted home with two second-floor guest rooms sharing a bathroom down the hall. This quaint bed & breakfast boasts access to a small library and the company of Dexter, the house cat.

Crosby House

175 Western Avenue
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 257-7145
www.crosbyhouse.com

This Italianate Victorian home built in 1868 has been beautifully restored and offers many unique amenities. It is also conveniently just a short walk form the funeral home.

The Inn on Putney Road

192 Putney Road
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 451-0208
vermontbandbinn.com

In 2008, The Inn On Putney Road was certified as one of the first “VT Green Hotels“ meaning they have made a commitment to environmental excellence by achieving a set of environmental standards. This forward-thinking inn is located just half a mile away from Ker-Phaneuf.

Colonial Motel

889 Putney Rd
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 257-7733
www.colonialmotelspa.com

The Colonial Motel, pet-friendly and set far back back from the highway, offers an indoor salt water pool, sauna, fitness room, masseuse, and on-site restaurant, in addition to many other wonderful amenities. Located just a short 2 mile drive from the funeral home.

Black Mountain Inn

959 Putney Road
Brattleboro, Vermont 05301
(802) 254-4583
www.theblackmountaininnvt.com

Conveniently located just two miles from the funeral home, The Black Mountain Inn offers a variety of rooms, including a king room with hot tub, as well as a number of amenities.

Restaurants

Manchester Area

Puritan Backroom Restaurant / American Cuisine

245 Daniel Webster Hwy North
Manchester NH
(603) 669-6890
www.puritanbackroom.com

Bedford Village Inn/ Fine Dining

2 Olde Bedford Way
Bedford, NH
(603) 296-3918; 800-852-1160
www.bedfordvillageinn.com

Belmont Hall & Restaurant/American Cuisine

718 Grove St.
Manchester, NH
(603) 625-8540
www.belmonthall.net

XO Bistro on Elm/American Cuisine

827 Elm St.
Manchester, NH
(603) 560-7998
www.xoonelm.com

The Foundry/American Cuisine

50 Commercial St.
Manchester, NH 03101
(603) 836-1925
www.foundrynh.com

Fratello’s Restaurant / Italian Cuisine

155 Dow St.
Manchester, NH
(603) 624-2022
www.fratellos.com

Hanover Street Chophouse / Fine Dining

149 Hanover St.
Manchester, NH
(603) 644-2467
www.hanoverstreetchophouse.com

The Derryfield Restaurant / American Cuisine

625 Mammoth Road
Manchester, NH 03104
(603) 623-2880
www.thederryfield.com

Villaggio Ristorante / Italian Cuisine

677 Hooksett Road
Manchester, NH 03104
(603) 627-2424
www.villaggionh.com

Boscawen/Concord Area Restaurants

Alan’s of Boscawen

133 N Main St
Boscawen, NH 03303
(603) 753-6631
www.alansofboscawen.com

Angelina’s Ristorante Italiano

11 Depot St # 1
Concord, NH 03301
(603) 228-3313
www.angelinasrestaurant.com

C C Tomatoes

209 Fisherville Rd
Concord, NH 03303
(603) 753-4450
www.cctomatoes.com

Common Man Restaurant

225 Water St
Concord, NH 03301
(603) 228-3463
www.thecman.com

Kapelli’s Pizzeria Restaurant

203 King St
Boscawen, NH 03303
(603) 796-2727

Margarita’s Mexican Restaurant

1 Bicentennial Sq
Concord, NH 03301
(603) 224-2821
www.margs.com

Red Blazer

72 Manchester St
Concord, NH 03301
(603) 224-4101
www.theredblazer.com

Siam Orchid

158 N Main St
Concord, NH 03301
(603) 228-1529
(603) 228-3633
www.siamorchid.net

The Barley House Restaurant & Tavern

132 North Main Street
Concord, NH 03301
(603) 228-6363
www.thebarleyhouse.com

Littleton Area Restaurants

Bailiwicks

111 Main Street
Littleton, NH 03561
(603) 444-7717
www.bailiwicksfinerestaurant.com

Tim-Bir Alley      

7 Main Street
Littleton, NH 03561
(603) 444-6142

Grille One Eleven

111 Main Street
Littleton, NH 03561
(603) 444-6469
www.thayersinn.com

Ninety Nine Restaurant

687 Meadow Street
Littleton, NH 03561
www.99restaurants.com

The Beal House Restaurant/Inn

2 West Main Street
Littleton, NH 03561
(603) 444-2661
www.thebealhouseinn.com

Alburritos

406 Union Street
Littleton, NH 03561
(603) 444-3338
www.alburritos603.com

Brattleboro Area Restaurants

Top of the Hill Grill

632 Putney Road
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 258-9178
www.topofthehillgrill.com

Authentic Pit BBQ and a stellar view on the protected outdoor deck, or dine in the heated, screened “deck house.”

Echo Restaurant and Lounge

73 Main Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 254-2073
echofoodanddrink.com

An extensive and wonderfully eclectic menu chock full of locally sourced ingredients with many vegetarian, vegan, and gluten free options.

Taste of Thai

1114 Putney Road
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 490-4482
www.tasteofthaivt.com

A mobile food truck offering Thai and Laos cuisine, family owned and operated by three generations.

T.J. Buckley’s

132 Elliot Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 257-4922
www.tjbuckleysuptowndining.com

New American cuisine from a chef with classic French training all with the finest local, organic, seasonal ingredients.

Wheststone Restaurant and Brewery

36 Bridge Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 490-2354
whetstonestation.com

Traditional brew pub fare, award winning craft beers, waterfront dining, and a rooftop “BierGarten.” Whetstone is a restauraunt that straddles the VT/NH state line and is a personal favorite of the Ker-Phaneuf staff.

Super Fresh Organic Cafe

30 Main Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 579-1751
superfreshcafe.com

An extensive menu of organic plant-based cuisine. Serving breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks and baked goods. Gluten-free, soy-free, dairy-free, peanut-free, egg-free, vegetarian. Ingredients are sourced from local and regional farms whenever possible.

The Marina

28 Spring Tree Road
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 257-7563
marina.restaurant

As the name might suggest, a casual dining atmosphere on the water offering delicious seafood dishes (with several selections for land-lovers as well), and an impressive wine and tap list.

Blue Moose Italian Bistro

39 Main Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 254-6245
bluemoosebistro.com

Sicilian comfort food with a chef-crafted menu that changes seasonally.

The New England House

254 Marlboro Rd.
Brattleboro, Vt 05301
(802) 254-6886
newenglandhousevt.com

American cuisine in a rustic setting with locally sourced, organic igredients. Menu items include many traditional favorites and a few surprise dishes for those who are a little more adventurous.  

Ramunto’s Brick Oven Pizza

1111 Putney Road
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 579-1226
ramuntos.com

Brick oven pizza and a friendly, accommodating staff.

The Tavern Restaurant

889 Putney Road
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 257-7733
colonialmotelspa.com

Shin La Restaurant

57 Main Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 257-5226
shinlarestaurant.com

Authentic Korean and Japanese cuisine with a sushi bar and casual dining atmosphere.

Tulip Cafe

126 Main Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(802) 490-2061
tulipcafevermont.com

Open for breakfast, lunch and brunch with offerings that are anything but “typical.”

Dosa Kitchen

400 Linden Street
Brattleboro, VT 05301
(646) 388-2221
dosakitchen.com

Food truck offering authentic South Indian “soul food” with local Vermont ingredients. Chef Nash Patel uses only humanely raised meats, local eggs, and organic dairy and coconut milk. All menu items are gluten free and there are many dairy-free and vegan menu options.

Car Services

Car Services Through Phaneuf Funeral Homes

During normal business hours (Monday through Friday 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.), and schedule permitting, our staff is available to assist you with your transportation needs.

If you are attending a visitation or service at one of our funeral homes and need transportation to a local residence, hotel, the Manchester Airport or a local restaurant, we can assist you. We can also make arrangements to pick up family members or friends locally and have them brought to one of our facilities as well. Our standard fee for this service is $25. Our vehicles can accommodate up to eight people. Of course, transportation of immediate family members to and from the funeral home is free of charge as part of any funeral or cremation service that includes use of one of our limousines. Please call us at (603) 625-5777 or 1-800-PHANEUF and ask to speak with the funeral director handling the services to make these arrangements.

Other Car Services

Ultimate Coach Limousine Services

(603) 622-9877
A small reliable and local limousine and car services available 24 hours per day.

Grace Limousine Service

(603) 666-0203
www.gracelimo.com

The largest car service in the state, Grace offers a range of different transportation options.

Queen City Taxi

(603) 622-0008
Reliable, around the clock taxi service serving Manchester and surrounding communities.

Enterprise Rent-A-Car

(603) 624-1999 or 1-800-261-7331
www.enterprise.com

Daily rentals available at very competitive rates. If you are a guest of the Springhill Suites, our partner hotel property, you can take advantage of a reduced rate and free pick-up and delivery service. Just mention account number 10D2154 when making a reservation.

Cardinal Care Wheelchair Transportation Services

(603) 668-1011
Local company providing transportation assist for the elderly and those in need of mobility assistance.

Airlines

Airline

Discount

Eligibility

Required Documentation

American

50 percent off full-price round-trip coach fare; must travel within 7 days.

Immediate family.**

At time of reservation, name of deceased or ill person and their relationship to you; name, address and phone number of funeral home or hospital and name of a person to contact there.

Delta

50 percent off full-price round-trip coach fare.

Immediate family.**

Proof of death or illness, such as coroner’s certificate, letter from funeral director or note from attending physician.

Continental

Averages 50 percent off full-price round-trip coach fares.

Immediate family, including foster parents, foster children and legal guardians.**

At time of reservation, name and phone number of hospital and doctor’s name for illness, or name and relationship of deceased and contact at funeral home for death.

United

Last-minute ticket can be purchased at 7-day advance price (about 15 percent off).

Immediate family, including domestic partners.**

For death, copy of death certificate or letter from funeral home; for emergency, copy of hospital admission/discharge or letter from doctor.

US Airways

None offered.

N/A

N/A

Southwest Airlines

None offered.

N/A

N/A

**Immediate family is a spouse; parent; child; sibling; grandparent; grandchild, and all great, step, half, adoptive and in-law variations; natural aunt, uncle, cousin, niece and nephew; plus exceptions as noted.

Function and catering services at our Hanover location

Our new café and function room can accommodate up to 45 people for a sit-down memorial meal before, during or after services.