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Memorial Day is about more than summer and barbecues

 

While it didn’t become a federal holiday until 1971, Memorial Day has been celebrated in some form since the Civil War – although back then it was known as Decoration Day.

Some towns hold parades and memorial services and some head to the cemetery to place flowers on graves, but over the years those activities have become fewer. For many it’s a day off, the official start of summer, filled with barbecues and fun, but the real purpose of the day is to honor the memory of men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military.

Memorial Day started off as a somber day of remembrance; a day when Americans went to cemeteries and placed flags or flowers on the graves of our war dead. It was a day to remember ancestors, family members, and loved ones who gave the ultimate sacrifice.” (usmemorialday.org)

Traditionally, Memorial Day was held on May 30, but was later changed to be observed on the last Monday in May in order to create a three-day weekend. Many have sought to change the holiday back to May 30 to set the day apart from the start-of-summer festivities.

Traditions

According to usmemorialday.org, there is a tradition to flying the American flag on Memorial Day. It should be fully raised, then lowered to half-staff until noon. After that it should be raised to full-staff for the rest of the day. When the flag is at half-staff, we remember the 1.1 million men and women who died serving our country; when it is raised to full-staff, their “memory is raised by the living, who resolve not to let their sacrifice be in vain, but to rise up in their stead and continue to fight for liberty and justice for all.”

A “National Moment of Remembranceresolution was passed in December 2000 in order to “reclaim Memorial Day as the sacred and noble event that that day is intended to be.” According to the resolution, at 3 p.m. local time, all Americans should pause whatever they are doing for a moment of silence.

Cemetery visits

Visits to the cemetery don’t have to be somber events. Check the cemetery rules ahead of time and follow some basic etiquette rules to maintain reverence and respect:

  • Children should learn that a cemetery is not a playground. They should not run or play on grave markers.
  • Pets should not make the trip to the cemetery unless they are service animals.
  • Don’t blast loud music from your car or music player
  • Obey speed limits.
  • Quiet picnics are usually allowed; please leave the hibachi at home.

Military cemeteries, especially Arlington National Cemetery, have their own rules. Check them before you go.

Ways you can observe Memorial Day

  • Visit the graves of fallen military personnel and leave flowers.
  • Observe a moment of silence at 3 p.m.
  • Fly the U.S. flag (and POW/MIA flag) at half-staff until noon.
  • Visit a war memorial.
  • Pledge to support the families of the fallen and disabled veterans.
  • Attend a Memorial Day parade and pay respects to those soldiers who gave their lives for our country.

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